A Guide To Working With Me…
Whether in my private studio nestled between Nottingham & Derby, an out-call to you, or through a digital connection, working directly with me offers you an intimately curated experience, designed to awaken your deepest desires and unlock transformative healing. Every session is thoughtfully crafted to honor your personal journey, blending sensuality, empowerment, and sacred connection.
Together, we will co-create an experience that resonates with your unique needs, desires, and intuitive wisdom, allowing you to explore the full spectrum of your erotic and emotional self.
With mindful care and deep reverence for your journey, it is my greatest honor to hold space for you—where you can safely release, heal, and step into your fullest potential for pleasure and transformation.
What To Expect
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When you come to my studio, you can expect a warm, inviting space that feels safe and sacred. From the moment you arrive, you will be gently guided into a state of relaxation and openness. We’ll begin by discussing your intentions and desires for the session, ensuring your comfort and clarity. Throughout our time together, I’ll offer mindful, intuitive support, allowing you to fully immerse in the experience. You’ll leave feeling deeply nourished, centered, and connected to your body, with space for healing and transformation to unfold.
My studio is near Long Eaton, just outside Nottingham. Full directions will be given upon booking.
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When you join me for a digital session, whether it's a meditation or coaching call, you can expect a calm, focused environment where you feel seen, heard, and supported. We’ll begin by creating a comfortable, sacred space for you to be present, discussing your intentions and goals for our time together. Through the session, I’ll guide you with care—whether we’re delving into a meditation or exploring deeper emotional and relational topics in a coaching call. Even from a distance, you'll experience the power of connection, leaving the session feeling grounded, empowered, and ready to continue your journey.
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When I come to you for an outcall session, whether at a hotel, or a hired studio space, you can expect a seamless, tranquil experience brought directly to you. I will arrive prepared to transform your environment into a sacred, calming space for our session, ensuring that you feel completely at ease.
We’ll begin by setting intentions together, tailoring the session to your needs and desires. Throughout, I’ll offer intuitive support, creating an immersive experience that honors your boundaries and promotes deep relaxation, healing, and connection.
Please note there are additional fees and considerations for outcall services. I do not make outcalls to private homes.
What I Can Help With…
When I say “all of you is welcome” I mean it! I work with people of all gender identities, sexualities and relationship styles. With personal experience of chronic illness, disability and neurodivergence I make every effort to ensure my offerings are inclusive. I’m poly-friendly, kink-friendly and accepting of all body types!
Healing emotional sexual wounds and shame
Exploring and deepening pleasure
Cultivating self-love and empowerment
Releasing emotional & energetic blockages or limiting beliefs
Building confidence in communication and boundaries
Alchemizing pleasure and pain for personal transformation
Unlocking greater levels of sexual energy and creativity
Enhancing body awareness and self-connection
Navigating intimacy and vulnerability
Guidance in tantric practices and sacred sexuality
Understanding and embracing kinks & the shadow self
Balancing erotic energy with spiritual growth
Creating meaningful rituals for personal empowerment
Mindful practices for stress relief and relaxation
Offerings
Somatic Healing
Somatic Healing Sessions are designed to help you reconnect with your body, release stored emotions, and explore your sexual energy in a safe, supported environment. These sessions focus on the mind-body connection, using touch, mindful practices, and emotional release to promote healing and personal transformation.
These sessions can be helpful for anyone seeking to deepen their self-connection, heal emotional wounds, or awaken their sensual potential. They create a space for profound transformation, helping you reclaim your body, boundaries, and pleasure with confidence and clarity.
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A Consent & Boundaries Healing Session is a deeply transformative experience designed to help you reconnect with your personal power, cultivate confidence in expressing your needs, and establish clear, respectful boundaries in all aspects of your life—whether emotional, physical, or sexual. This session invites you to explore how consent and boundaries are fundamental to your well-being, pleasure, and healing, creating a foundation for more empowered and authentic relationships.
During our time together, we will work through a combination of guided discussions, somatic exercises, and mindful practices that allow you to tap into your body’s wisdom. You’ll gain practical tools to identify and express your desires, say "no" with clarity, and set boundaries that feel aligned with your deepest values. Through a gentle and supportive approach, we will dive into how to recognize the signals your body sends when something feels right—or when it doesn’t—helping you to trust yourself and navigate your relationships with a renewed sense of confidence and safety.
One of the most profound aspects of these sessions is learning to reconnect with your inner voice. For those who have experienced past violations of their boundaries or who struggle with people-pleasing tendencies, it can be challenging to know where your boundaries truly lie. You may feel unsure of how to communicate a firm “no” or feel pressure to say “yes” to avoid discomfort or conflict. These sessions allow you to reclaim your right to set boundaries, empowering you to make decisions based on what feels good and right for you.
We will also explore how embodiment—becoming fully aware of and present in your body—plays a key role in understanding consent. By engaging in exercises that involve different types of touch and sensory exploration, you’ll learn to read your body’s signals and emotions more clearly. These practices will help you understand how your body responds to certain situations, enabling you to confidently discern and communicate your preferences.
By cultivating a clear understanding of consent—both with yourself and with others—you will be better equipped to create relationships that honor your boundaries and respect your autonomy. This session creates a safe, supportive space to explore what consent feels like in your body, how to establish healthy boundaries, and how to navigate your relationships with respect and openness.
Ultimately, this work leads to deeper self-awareness, increased confidence in expressing your desires, and more fulfilling connections that are built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding.
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A Commanding Touch Massage uses intentional touch to guide you into deeper awareness, offering both relaxation and empowerment.
A unique experience where you are in complete control. This session invites you to instruct how you want your body to be touched, ensuring that every interaction aligns with your desires and comfort levels. The only touch you'll receive is precisely what you request—nothing more, nothing less.
Throughout the massage, I will check in with you at every step, creating a supportive atmosphere that encourages open communication. Whether you desire a gentle stroke of your hair, a soothing hold of your hands, or relief for an aching back, this session is entirely tailored to your needs and preferences.
This beautifully healing experience is particularly beneficial for those who have experienced boundary violations in the past, as it empowers you to reclaim agency over your body and sensations. Please note that there is no genital touch in this session, allowing for a focused, respectful exploration of your boundaries and comfort. Enjoy a nurturing journey that promotes relaxation, healing, and a deep connection to your own body.
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An Emotional Alchemy Ritual is a transformational experience designed to help you release and process the old emotions that stagnate within your physical and energetic bodies. We all carry memories, traumas, and feelings that can become trapped, impacting our overall well-being. In this ritual, we utilize a blend of conscious, mindful touch, energy work, bio-energetic massage and somatic movement techniques to gently invite these emotions to the surface, allowing for healing and processing.
Through intuition and co-creation, we will work together to alchemise these trapped energies to become energy you can reclaim. Each element is designed to create a holistic approach to emotional healing, enabling you to reconnect with your body and mind. You will also have the opportunity to voice and process any feelings or memories that arise during the session, promoting a deeper understanding of your emotional landscape.
You will be provided with a safe and supportive environment to explore your emotions fully. This ritual gives you the time and space to release what no longer serves you, allowing for a gentle yet profound re-connection with yourself. You can complete this session with whatever level of clothing feels comfortable to you, ensuring that you feel secure throughout the process.
Through this journey, you will experience a sense of release, empowerment, and clarity, ultimately allowing you to move forward with greater ease and emotional resilience. Embrace the opportunity to transform old wounds into wisdom and reclaim your emotional well-being through this sacred practice.
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The Pleasure and Pain Ritual is a transformative somatic healing session designed to encourage deep embodiment and exploration of the intricate interplay between pleasure and pain. This unique ritual invites you to engage with your senses and harness the power of kink in a conscious, intentional manner.
During this session, you will be gently guided to explore sensory kink play, allowing you to awaken your senses and deepen your connection to your body. Through mindful touch and various forms of kink, you’ll have the opportunity to push your boundaries in a safe and supportive environment. This exploration helps to release emotional blockages, enabling a natural flow of energy and enhancing your overall well-being.
Each ritual is tailored to your individual needs and desires, creating a personalized experience that honors your unique journey. You will be encouraged to express your boundaries and desires openly, allowing for a dynamic exchange that fosters trust, connection, and empowerment. We can include kinks such as bondage, impact, scratching, sensory deprivation, and more.
As you immerse yourself in the ritual, you may experience heightened awareness of your body and emotions, leading to profound insights and healing. By consciously engaging with pleasure and pain, you can learn to embrace the full spectrum of your experiences, reclaiming your sense of agency and expanding your capacity for joy.
In this sacred journey of discovery, the dance of pleasure and pain becomes a powerful tool for transformation, healing, and embodiment. Embrace the opportunity to connect with your body on a deeper level and unlock new dimensions of your pleasure and potential.
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The Root Reconnection Ritual is a profound healing experience designed to help you reconnect with the deepest parts of your being through the exploration of your pelvis and genitals. Using a combination of tantric and bioenergetic massage, somatic touch, and energy work, this ritual guides you on a journey of self-discovery and liberation, allowing you to access areas of pain, pleasure, numbness, held emotion, and trapped trauma within your body.
Through mindful, intentional touch, the ritual maps the energy and sensations stored in the pelvic region, inviting you to identify and release blockages, tensions, or unresolved emotions. This gentle process brings awareness to the areas where trauma or stagnant energy may have taken root, enabling you to liberate yourself from what no longer serves you.
The session is a sacred space for transformation, blending techniques that awaken and balance your sexual energy with deep emotional healing. By reconnecting with your root—your foundational source of life force—you’ll open pathways for greater pleasure, self-awareness, and emotional release, cultivating a renewed sense of freedom and embodiment.
The Root Reconnection Ritual offers a safe, supportive container for healing and liberation, inviting you to embrace your wholeness and experience the full spectrum of your body's wisdom.
Energetic & Healing Rituals
Energetic and Healing Rituals are deeply restorative experiences designed to balance, cleanse, and realign your energy. These rituals blend practices such as energy work, mindful touch, breathwork, sacred affirmations and spiritual cleansing to release blockages, shift stagnant energy, and invite healing at a profound level. By working with the body’s energetic and emotional layers, these rituals offer a pathway to greater self-awareness, emotional liberation, sexual healing and inner peace, helping you to reconnect with your body, spirit, pleasure and natural vitality.
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Our bodies and energetic fields hold onto the imprints of past sexual experiences, forming energetic ties that can linger long after the moments themselves have passed. These memories can create blocks, weigh down our energy, and prevent us from fully embracing our present selves. Through a range of energetic and spiritual cleansing practices, we can release the hooks of old memories, sever energetic cords from past relationships or encounters, and restore you to the sovereignty of your own divine energy. This process allows you to reclaim parts of yourself that may have been lost, empowering you to move forward with greater clarity, freedom, and connection to your authentic self.
Each cleansing session is a deeply personal and sacred experience, co-created to meet your unique needs. Together, we will craft a ritual that resonates with you, choosing from practices such as guided visualization, where we journey inward to release what no longer serves you, or a cord-cutting ritual to dissolve energetic ties from past experiences or relationships. Additional support may come from crystals, which are chosen for their healing properties, herbs to cleanse and purify the space and your energy, and cards to provide guidance and insight into the emotional and spiritual layers of your journey. This is your space for healing and transformation, offering a profound release that restores your energetic body to its natural state of flow and radiance.
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Originating from the Quodoushka tradition, this ritual utilizes five distinct types of touch to create an energetic circuit throughout the body. Beginning with firm, grounding touch and gradually transitioning to lighter, more energetic touch, your body will be gently awakened, soothed, and ultimately brought into deep stillness. As the session progresses, you'll experience a release of stagnant energy, allowing fresh, vibrant energy to surface and flow freely. This process helps to not only awaken your body but also to integrate pain and trauma, transforming these stored experiences into usable energy that empowers you, rather than acting as emotional or physical blocks. By the end of the ritual, you'll feel more aligned, grounded, and connected to your own life force, experiencing a profound sense of healing and renewal.
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This ritual is designed to connect you deeply with your body, allowing you to feel fully loved, beautiful, and worthy at every level. Through a combination of physical or energetic touch (or a blend of both, depending on your preference), your body will be honored in its full divinity. Beginning at the crown of your head and slowly moving down to your toes, each part of your body—within the boundaries you set—will be caressed with gentle, loving, and healing touch. The experience is further enhanced by the use of verbal positive affirmations, spoken to reinforce your innate beauty, self-worth, and divine nature.
As the ritual unfolds, you'll feel layers of tension, self-doubt, or emotional armor dissolve, replaced by a deep sense of acceptance and love for yourself. To bring the ceremony to a close, we will engage in gentle eye gazing and a soothing face massage, which helps to unmask the beauty of your true self, leaving you feeling radiant, seen, and profoundly connected to your own inner essence. This practice offers not just physical relaxation, but a deeply transformative emotional and spiritual connection with your body and soul.
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In this Crystal Healing Ritual, we will embark on a collaborative journey to select the perfect crystals that resonate with your unique healing needs, helping you find balance and nourish your body and spirit. Together, we will explore the properties of various crystals, focusing specifically on those that support healing and nurturing of the sensual and sexual aspects of your being. This careful selection process is designed to create a personalized experience that aligns with your intentions and desires.
Once we have chosen the crystals, the ritual will involve placing them over specific energy points on your body, allowing their natural vibrations to harmonize with your own energy field. As you settle into a state of relaxation, you will be guided through a meditative journey, accompanied by gentle music, positive affirmations, and healing sounds that enhance the experience. This multi-sensory environment creates a safe and nurturing space for you to release tension, connect with your inner self, and absorb the healing energies of the crystals.
During this time, you may find yourself drifting into a state of deep relaxation, allowing the crystals to work their magic as they clear blockages and promote emotional and physical healing. This ritual not only aims to restore balance but also empowers you to embrace your sensuality and connect more deeply with your body and soul. By the end of the session, you will feel rejuvenated, centered, and infused with a renewed sense of vitality and love for yourself.
Tantric Massage
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Yoni
For people with vulvas
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Lingam
For people with penises
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Heart
For all, and especially powerful for those with breasts
Pathways To Pleasure
Deluxe retreat experiences & extended journeys created in a pathway designed to maximise healing and pleasure potential. Come for a one-off retreat day, diving into luxury and self-discovery. Or, space out your experience to suit you, with pathways mapped out to ensure your commitment to yourself is as powerful, healing, and pleasureful as possible.
Cacao Ceremonies
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In a private cacao ceremony, you’ll experience the power of sacred cacao in an intimate and personalized setting. Using the highest quality ceremonial-grade cacao, this deeply grounding ritual invites you to connect with your heart, enhance self-awareness, and set intentions for healing and growth. The ceremony can be customized to your needs and combined with other practices such as meditation, breathwork, or crystal healing, creating a transformative experience that nurtures your body, mind, and spirit. Cacao is the perfect complement to any of my other offerings, supporting deeper emotional release and connection during your session.
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Group cacao ceremonies are a beautiful way to bring people together in shared intention and collective healing. Whether for friends, a community event, or a sacred gathering, I guide the group through the process of drinking sacred cacao, creating a space of openness and connection. These sessions can include meditation, breathwork, group healing, rituals and more to enhance the experience, helping the group ground their energy and align with their intentions.
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If you're hosting an event and looking to add a unique, heart-opening experience, I can bring a cacao ceremony to you. Using the finest sacred cacao, I create a sacred space for your guests to drop into their hearts and elevate the energy of your gathering. Whether as a standalone offering or as an addition to another ceremony or workshop, the cacao can be combined with meditation, breathwork, or other healing practices to enhance the overall experience. Perfect for retreats, festivals, or special events, a cacao ceremony brings a layer of depth and connection that your participants will remember.
Meditation, Pathworking & Breathwork
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In-person sessions offer a deeply immersive and transformative experience, guiding you on a profound inward journey. Together, we will co-create a personalized meditation that allows you to explore the depths of your consciousness and connect with your true self.
Alternatively, or in combination, by using tantric breathwork, you’ll learn to harness and flow with your body’s life energy, opening up pathways for healing, insight, and self-discovery. This session is designed to leave you feeling enlightened, empowered, and more in tune with your inner landscape.
Meditation, pathworking and breathwork can be provided as standalone sessions or added onto any of my other offerings.
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For those seeking a virtual experience, online sessions offer the same depth and connection, allowing you to journey inward from the comfort of your own space. These live sessions are tailored to your individual needs and goals, providing the opportunity for healing, relaxation, and personal exploration. With the optional integration of tantric breathwork, you’ll feel deeply connected to your body and energy, no matter where you are. Together, we’ll create a space for you to dive into your subconscious, gaining clarity and self-awareness in a way that feels safe and supportive.
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If you prefer a more flexible option, I also create high quality bespoke meditation recordings designed specifically for you. These personalized recordings allow you to embark on a guided pathworking journey whenever it suits you. By co-creating a meditation tailored to your intentions, challenges, or desires, we’ll craft a unique experience that promotes healing, enlightenment, and self-discovery. With the addition of tantric breathwork techniques, these recordings will help you connect with your body’s life energy, fostering a sense of deep relaxation, clarity, and transformation at your own pace.
Private Workshops
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Tantric massage doesn’t require a partner! In a bespoke, private workshop, you will learn how to apply the transformative power of tantric massage techniques to yourself, creating a profound connection with your body and inner energy. Self-pleasure and self-healing are sacred acts of love and reverence that allow you to explore your own needs, desires, and boundaries in a deeply intimate way. This session is designed to guide you in slowing down, tuning into your body, and using touch to heal, process emotions, release tension, and let go of what no longer serves you.
Through conscious, mindful touch, you will discover how to unlock blocked energy, experience deeper pleasure, and bring awareness to areas of your body that need healing. The focus is on self-awareness, allowing you to cultivate a sense of empowerment and self-love as you explore your body in a safe, supportive environment. Whether you are looking to release stored emotions, invite relaxation, or simply deepen your relationship with yourself, this workshop provides the tools and techniques to help you on that journey.
For those with a yoni, you have the option to receive a crystal yoni wand and be guided on how to use it for internal self-massage. This ancient, sacred practice allows you to connect with your yoni on a deeper level, promoting healing, pleasure, and the release of stored tension or trauma. The workshop will teach you how to integrate this tool into your self-care routine, honoring your body with tenderness and awareness while inviting in both physical and energetic healing.
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Interested in enhancing your pleasure but haven’t been able to attend one of my workshops? Now, you can embark on a bespoke, private learning journey designed exclusively for you and your partner, or even a trio. These tailored workshops will teach you the art of tantric massage, advanced pleasure techniques, and tantric connection practices that will not only elevate your intimate experiences but also deepen the bond between you and your beloved. Each session offers a unique opportunity to explore the sacred connection between touch, pleasure, and intimacy in a private, safe, and serene space.
Whether you are new to tantric practices or looking to deepen your current practice, we will focus on key elements of yoni and/or lingam massage, guiding you through the principles of mindful touch and energetic connection. You will learn how to cultivate deep intimacy, communicate your desires with clarity, and honor your partner’s body in ways that promote healing and enhanced pleasure. These practices are designed to bring a profound sense of trust, vulnerability, and connection to your relationship, while also expanding your pleasure potential.
This customized, hands-on experience allows you to explore, experiment, and enjoy the healing and connective power of tantra at your own pace, making it a truly transformative experience for couples or trios.
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I offer a range of group workshops designed to explore pleasure, connection, and healing, tailored to suit the needs of your group. Whether you're interested in one of my existing workshops—such as Penis/Pussy Pleasure, Sexual Sorcery, Tender Torment or Sacred Suffering —or want to create a bespoke experience for your group, I'm here to co-create a transformative journey with you.
Perfect for small, intimate groups, my workshops are an opportunity to dive deep into self-discovery and shared learning.
I am also available to host workshops and hold space at sex-positive events, offering a safe, supportive environment for exploration. For inquiries or to discuss your vision, please contact me directly.
Transformation Coaching
Transformation Coaching is an invitation to go beyond surface-level changes and dive deep into the heart of who you are. Unlike traditional coaching, which often focuses on external shifts—such as achieving goals or making lifestyle changes—transformation coaching helps you embark on an inward journey of self-discovery and growth. It’s about working from the inside out, addressing the core beliefs, patterns, and emotions that shape your life, so you can experience true, lasting change. By exploring your inner world, you’ll uncover what’s holding you back and begin to cultivate the clarity, confidence, and freedom to live, love, and experience pleasure more authentically.
Through this deeply reflective and empowering process, we will work together to untangle limiting beliefs, heal old wounds, and align your life with your true values and desires. Transformation coaching isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about real, meaningful change that stems from a deeper understanding of yourself. Whether you're seeking to shift your relationship with pleasure, healing, or personal growth, these sessions will support you in creating a solid foundation for lasting transformation in every area of your life.
“I’m not sure what I need”
Feeling a bit lost or overwhelmed? I offer introductory sessions for those who are unsure of what they need or where to begin. In this session, we’ll explore your experiences, any concerns or worries, as well as your intentions and desires. Together, we’ll design a bespoke plan that aligns with your personal journey, ensuring you feel comfortable, supported, and empowered throughout the process. This is a space to ask questions and gain clarity on the best path forward for your unique needs.
Introductory sessions are 60 minutes and usually include some consent & boundaries exercises.
FAQs
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Visit the bookings page here to book or contact me if you would prefer to pay via paypal/cash. If you are unsure what kind of session you need, I offer detailed introductory sessionsand free discovery calls.
Please contact me for anything not covered on the bookings page, if you have any difficulties paying online or prefer a different payment method.
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Yes! To keep the booking system simple, the length of each session has been standardised. If you would like a longer journey, just get in touch!
I do not offer shorter sessions.
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Please contact me if you cannot pay using my online booking service. I am able to take 50% deposits using paypal and accept cash for the balance due at the session.
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Yes, I have my own professional boundaries which will not be crossed under any circumstances. I have previously, and will continue to, turn away clients who do not respect these boundaries.
I do NOT offer:
Sexual services/sexual surrogacy
Mutual touch
Naturist massage
Body-to-body massage
Anal/prostate massage
Some kinks, including: race play, age play, consensual-non-consent, watersports, scat, blood play, sissification, findom, play fighting, medical play.
If you have a specific kink or fetish please discuss it with me before booking a conscious kink exploration.
I do not submit/bottom in my professional role
Please note that my fees are non-negotiable and I block individuals who try to "haggle"
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I wear comfortable, easy-to-move in clothes. I do not work nude and I do not take special requests for what I wear.
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My private studio is nestled on the outskirts of a small town between Nottingham and Derby, close to the M1 and A52. The nearest train station is Long Eaton. There is a nearby bus stop. There is free on-street parking.
The studio is unfortunately not fully accessible as there is a single step outside and a lipped doorway.
Please note there are no shower facilities at the studio so please ensure you have showered beforehand.
You will receive the full address upon booking.
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To prepare for a session with me, ensure you're in a calm, open mindset, ready to explore your body, emotions, and energy with curiosity and trust. Wear comfortable clothing, and avoid intoxicants beforehand. It's helpful to reflect on any intentions, desires, or concerns you'd like to address during the session, but most importantly, come as you are—ready to engage in a safe, respectful space for personal growth and healing.
For sessions involving bodywork, please ensure you’ve taken a shower prior to the session to help create a comfortable and respectful environment for our work together.
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After the session, it's important to give yourself time and space to integrate the experience. Drink plenty of water, rest, and avoid any intense activities or stimulating environments for the remainder of the day. You may also find it helpful to journal, take a gentle walk, or engage in a relaxing practice like meditation to support emotional processing and allow the body to settle into a state of balance and calm. Some of the sessions I offer, especially tantric massage, can have delayed responses. You may find yourself emotional, excited, creative, exhausted and more as energies and emotions come through for processing.
If any feelings or questions arise later, feel free to reach out for support.
There is a gentle countryside walk adjacent to the studio should you wish to integrate in nature.
“Safety is not the absence of threat, it is the presence of connection”
— Dr Gabor Mate